Disappointed

We knew there would be hurdles but had no idea how high we had to jump! Our state/agency is not adoptive friendly. They make it hard to adopt out of state, because they want you to adopt in state. Basically there are 4 states involved in this adoption, and our state has a problem with that. So we have tried to eliminate one by relinquishing in another state but now are state/agency is not happy with that either. In the past we have found that lawyers, agency, and the state work together. I believe it is important to protect against child trafficking but I think this situation is going far beyond that, there needs to be a one federal law and not individual state laws to prevent trafficking and allow families and children to come together. We are still pursing options with this adoption , and are putting our faith in God.